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By someone who's walked this path — and is still walking it, step by step.

From Dream to Design: My Personal Journey

Since starting my business back in 2004, I’ve been blessed with an inner knowing — a compass that constantly points toward a life that feels rooted, real, and aligned. I’ve never wanted to follow the status quo. I’ve always wanted to design my life as a reflection of all the things that light me up and keep me inspired.

I want to raise my son at home while building a strong family unit. I want to bake sourdough, grow food, preserve the harvest, and live by the rhythms my grandparents knew so well. I want to homeschool, hang clothes out to dry, and live at a pace where I actually feel present in my own life. That’s the heartbeat of this blog. And it’s what I believe is possible for you too.

If you're longing to stay home, earn income ethically, and live a life that feels honest — this guide is your invitation and your roadmap.

Step 1: Find a Mentor Who’s Just a Few Steps Ahead

You don’t need to reinvent the wheel. You need a real person who’s living the life you want — or just a few steps ahead of you — and is willing to show you the way. Russell Brunson calls this your “Attractive Character” and Martha Krejci describes it as finding “your person” who makes the vision feel attainable.

How to do it:

• Search YouTube and Instagram for creators who are living your dream lifestyle.
• Invest in a low-ticket membership, course, or coaching space if they offer one.
• Follow them, study how they show up, and take notes on what works.

Step 2: Make a List of What Inspires You

This is non-negotiable. You cannot make money sustainably from something you despise. Chris Do always says that clarity comes from action, not thought. Start by writing down the things you love doing — the things that light you up — even if they seem “too simple.”

Ask yourself: What would I do for free? What do people ask me about? What do I always want to learn more about?

Your list might include:

• Herbal remedies
• Bread baking
• Natural cleaning products
• Meal planning or sourdough classes
• Simple living tips or motherhood support
• cooking
• cleaning
• homeschooling your kids

Step 3: If You Want What They Have… Do What They Do

This one’s tough, but important. If you’re scrolling and admiring women online who are growing their homesteads, earning money from their kitchens, and living slowly — remember: they didn’t get there by accident. They took consistent action.

That’s the difference between wishful thinking and momentum. You don’t need their results today — but you do need to start walking in their direction.

Step 4: Take Daily Action Toward Your Goal

The most successful women don’t have more time than you. They have more clarity — and a habit of tiny daily action. Build one habit a day. This is how you collapse time.

Examples:

• Day 1: Choose your niche
• Day 2: Set up a free Linktree or Milkshake bio
• Day 3: Write your first Instagram caption
• Day 4: Record a 30-second video sharing why you’re starting

Step 5: Join Affiliate Programs to Monetize Your Values

Don’t start with your own product. Start by sharing products you already use and love. Affiliate marketing is one of the fastest ways to begin earning passive income.

Get started with these values-aligned programs:

• Azure Standard (organic bulk foods)
• Cultures for Health (fermentation, sourdough, cheese kits)

Pro Tip: Embed your affiliate links in blog posts, YouTube descriptions, and Instagram bios. (see, just like I do :) )

Step 6: Be Visible — Everywhere (Without Burnout)

Russell Brunson calls this “publishing daily.” You don’t have to be on every platform, but you do need to be findable. Create once, distribute everywhere.

How:

• Film one 1-minute video
• Post it to IG, TikTok, Facebook Reels, and YouTube Shorts
• Use it to build trust, not sell
• Include your affiliate link in your bio
• write weekly blog posts about things that inspire you and position you as an expert

Step 7: Learn Basic SEO and AEO (So People Can Find You)

Search Engine Optimization (SEO) and Answer Engine Optimization (AEO) help your content show up when people Google questions. Use tools like:

• Ubersuggest or Keywords Everywhere to find trending topics
• Answer common questions in blog posts and video titles
• Use phrases like “how to start a sourdough starter” or “easy herbal salve recipe”

How Much Can You Actually Make?

Here’s a realistic snapshot of what’s possible in your first 3–6 months — starting slow:

Goal: Reach $1,000–$2,000/month in 90–120 days — enough to relieve financial pressure and prove to yourself (and your partner) that this works.

The Gentle Path to Sovereignty

You don’t need a massive launch. You don’t need to wait until the kids are older. You need a path that meets you where you are — with tiny, consistent steps.

That’s what our membership is about — The Sovereign Mama Circle is coming soon. It includes:

• Daily roadmap emails — “Do this today” guidance
• Monthly income classes for values-based business
• Homesteading + Nourishing Traditions-style skills
• Private community of women just like you

📥 Want first access? Join the waitlist here and get our free “Start Earning From Home” blueprint.

Let’s build the life you’ve been dreaming of — I promise you, it's possible, but ultimately, it's up to you to take the first step.

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